Ever felt like a jerk after setting a boundary? We know how it feels. Apply to PFU Now. Hold Kind Boundaries For Yourself AND Others. So you never feel unkind or exhausted again.
If you answer "yes" to any of these, you may need to set and hold boundaries that are kind to you AND others.
In this information-rich world, we don't rise to the level of our insights. We fall to the level of our training. When you're overcoming your fear of rejection, abandonment and judgement, you don't have that training. That's why Pink Flamingo University equips you to set and hold boundaries that are kind to you AND others. So, you never feel unkind or exhausted again...as you show up as the REAL YOU consistently.
"I was very lost, angry, untethered. Like a squirrel stuck on the freeway. Through the [Pink Flamingo University], I've found witness to my experience, and the courage to look into the deep, dark corners, and honor why I became who I am. Now I feel grounded, centered, and have confidence in the woman I want to be.". A
THE SOLUTION: THE PINK FLAMINGO UNIVERSITY
You'll be equipped to live life as the best version of yourself - your pink flamingo self:
No more snapping, shutting down, running away, freezing, or defaulting to people-pleasing when pressure hits. You stay yourself when people keep doing what they've always done.
You consistently feel whole and aligned as you embrace your pink flamingo self and your choices match your values. You stop living in post-moment shame ("I ruined everything") and start trusting yourself to repair, reset, and keep moving forward.
Your relationships get cleaner and safer as you show up kind and firm consistently, even when there's pushback or someone refuses to change. You also stop over-functioning and start receiving better.
People you interact with see that kindness is no longer confused with self-erasure. "Love God and love your neighbor AS yourself" becomes your real standard. Your healing also helps fund therapy access, emotional wellness retreats, and books to heal psychological wounds tied to Caribbean slavery.
"It helped me discover a lot about my identity. I've gotten so many valuable and practical tools and strategies on how to anchor myself in the identity that God gave me and show up as my truest self in different areas of life. I know God sees me. I know how I should show up as his daughter first, and what He has called me to do. It's like a navigation group with Chanel being used by God as the navigator to help us."-C
Real Pom-Poms (that's what we call wins) from real members.
Alexandra was feeling really untethered and challenged by day-to-day situations. She felt like she was running around like a squirrel stuck on the freeway, not knowing which direction to go. Today she feels grounded and centered. Even as she explores parts of herself she had pushed down for years while trying to show up in all the roles she was playing in her life.
This woman was feeling very reactive during conflict. Since joining, she has been practicing getting to the root of what's actually driving her reactions and responding well in those moments. "It uncovers things for me that I would not necessarily have found on my own. It reminds me of how I want to show up in the world."
"The Conflict Framework works. I felt like I was running around in circles with a friend for a long while. I'd react, cuss the person out, feel bad and frustrated because I'm in therapy, I shouldn't be making those mistakes. When I attempted the conflict framework, it showed me that the reason why I was reacting had nothing to do with the person. It had everything to do with the fact that I was angry at myself. It helped me see the root cause of why I was reacting instead of responding. Our relationship is now doing much better."-C
"I had read some things. I had talked to my therapist. But being a part of this group, the Pink Flamingo University allows me to connect everyday moments that reveal to me where myself or others are maybe showing up inauthentically. When I go out into the world and I see a pink flamingo, it's a subtle reminder of the things I'm dedicated to and what I'm working on."-K
"What I didn't expect was the type of change that comes from feeling truly supported by a community that takes into account the full spectrum of you and your journey. I was not just given advice. I was provided lifelong tools, added perspective, and a renewed sense of self. Together, we learned how to make decisions from a place of strength instead of stress. I stepped into a version of myself that was always there: dynamic and assured."-J
"Yesterday God pulled me away from my original plan and spent half the day ministering to me deeply. He dealt with a part of me I have left unattended. Ignored for way too long. Yesterday was hard on me mentally, emotionally, and physically but it was needed. My soul is much better for it. Sometimes things change. Sometimes shifts happen. But in the process, our emotions still need to be regulated."-D
Attend the FREE Pink Flamingo Flamboyance to get a feel of the environment and apply our core tool to one situation you're facing. We'll also be assessing fit for the space.
Accept the invitation to join PFU. Fly into a supportive community and start using the practical tools for day-to-day living.
Move through life with grounded pink flamingo confidence that transforms your relationships. Practice responding from identity, not reactivity. Stay balanced, peaceful, and self- and neighbor-honoring even when the waters shift.
"Whether it's in my relationship with my husband or with a friend or with my job or with my business or you know in a variety of daily living, I feel like [the Club] has been an intentional and godly way to stay the course. The activities are intentional. They do challenge you and when you are challenged, you have the opportunity to choose what you are going to do."-K
10% of every dollar you invest here reaches further than you - sponsoring the healing of the generational psychological wounds of Caribbean slavery through the work of grassroots Caribbean organizations.
Give away Pink Flamingo books and resources to strangers throughout the Caribbean
Send Caribbean strangers to therapy
Send child sexual abuse survivors to therapy. All proceeds from In Search of the Pink Flamingo go toward this initiative.
Fund free emotional wellness workshops and retreats led by grassroots organizations
Create the curriculum and launch an Emotional Wellness program for Caribbean schools at all levels
"It's a sacred space. I feel God's presence in the club. It gives me access to a spiritual home, a sisterhood. The activities are perspective shifting. Like pulling up old weeds, putting in new fertilizer. And I like that community, with different women from different walks of life, you have this variety of perspectives and insight, and you realize that your personal struggle is not a unique one."-J
From Fledge to Soar — Choose the Flock Level That's Right For You: Every option below leads to the same outcome — you being equipped to confidently navigate life AS your pink flamingo self. The only difference is how you want to get there.
| Application Tools | |||
| Digital Application Tools Vault 🪜Includes step-by-step tools for core pink flamingo activities, fully editable worksheets for practical application in daily life and Master the Skill Series guides to help you find blind spots faster. | |||
| Monthly Dares 🔥Targeted growth challenges designed to build your reps in areas you need it most. | |||
| Digital Training Nest 📚On-demand video trainings on topics like behaviour flagging techniques, conflict navigation myths, setting God-aligned boundaries, pouring from your overflow, emotional regulation, stewardship of self, people, power, and resources across all area of life. | |||
| "Dream Again. Dream Bigger" StoriesStories that spark your imagination and inspire you to rethink what's possible for you in every area of life. | |||
| Community and Application | |||
| LIVE Monthly Master Pink Flamingo Club Flamboyance 🦩A live 2-hour session with four opportunities to attend each month. Celebrate wins, be witnessed, anchor into your identity, and apply the Pink Flamingo Conflict Navigation Framework to real-life situations. Teaching is recorded; discussions are not. | |||
| Pink Flamingo Lagoon 🏝️A dedicated community space where flamingos share wins, challenges, insights, and questions as they apply tools and execute dares. Growth is supported daily, not just during sessions. | |||
| Pink Flamingo Pairs 👫Get paired with a pink flamingo so you're not walking alone. Use the tools together, hold each other's hands up, witness each other, identify blind spots, and build courage and clarity side-by-side. | |||
| Physical Application Tools | |||
| Quarterly Conflict Navigation Toolkit 🪶A physical shipment each quarter of the Conflict Navigation Journal for hands-on practice. First shipment includes Master the Skill Series Guides and the Conflict Navigation Guide. | — | ||
| Quarterly Daily Flight Journal ✨Delivered to your door each quarter for daily practice, reflection, and growth tracking. | — | ||
| Pink Flamingo Library 📖Hard copies of all current and future Pink Flamingo books delivered to your door. Deepen learning and revisit concepts anytime. | — | ||
| Vision and Discipleship | |||
| Annual Vision Nesting 🪹An strategic gathering focused on vision and stewardship of the year ahead. Past recordings available. | — | ||
| "Sniper-Spotter" Discipleship 🦩An intimate, "Walk with Me" mentorship journey. Limited to one group of 10. Meet twice per month for one full year. Focus: Mastering stewardship of people, resources and authority. Identifying and uprooting your people-pleasing blind spots and triggers. Wherever God leads. | — | — | |
| Legacy Impact | |||
| Fledge Scholarships 🎁Gift a PFU Fledge membership to a Caribbean stranger, multiplying impact beyond your own growth. | — | ||
| Application only entry. Book the FREE Flamboyance Experience to apply. | Apply for Fledge | Apply for Flight | Apply for Soar |
Transform your life forever in two hours. Pick a Thursday at 1pm EST that works for you.
Monthly (runs 4 times for the month. Weekly on Thursdays at 6-8pm ET). Pink Flamingo Lagoon community space runs throughout the month. The discussion and practice aspects of Flamboyances are NOT recorded.
No. We protect intimacy and confidentiality. As a part of the University, you're also paired with another pink flamingo for 2x2 walking for a quarter. Your seat is held in your assigned flock. If you miss a flamboyance, your monthly focus activity inside the community space keeps you moving.
Quarterly or annual, depending on your flock tier. We exist to equip you with lifelong skills, not to lock you in. Most members stay about a year.
No. But we talk with God openly and often. You simply need to desire a life that honors God, yourself, and others.
No. Men and women walk this journey with us.
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